Counselling Skills I
COURSE STRUCTURE
The course is divided into eight lessons as follows:
1. Learning Specific Skills
Learning methods; the counselling role
2. Listening and Bonding
Meeting and greeting; helping the client relax; listening with intent
3. Reflection and Paraphrasing
Reflection of feeling; client responses to reflection of feelings; reflection of content and feeling
4. Questioning
Open and closed questions; other types of questions; goals of questioning
5. Interview Techniques
Summarising; confrontation; reframing
6. Changing Beliefs and Normalising
Changing self-destructive beliefs; irrational beliefs; normalising
7. Finding Solutions
Making choices; facilitating actions; gestalt awareness; psychological blocks
8. Ending the Counselling
Terminating the session; closure; further meetings; dependency, confronting dependency
AIMS
- Explain the processes involved in the training of counsellors in micro skills.
- Demonstrate the skills involved in commencing the counselling process and evaluation of non-verbal responses and minimal responses.
- Demonstrate reflection of content, feeling, both content and feeling, and its appropriateness to the counselling process.
- Develop different questioning techniques and to understand risks involved with some types of questioning.
- Show how to use various micro-skills including summarising, confrontation, and reframing.
- Demonstrate self-destructive beliefs and show methods of challenging them, including normalising.
- Explain how counselling a client can improve their psychological well-being through making choices, overcoming psychological blocks and facilitating actions.
- Demonstrate effective ways of terminating a counselling session and to explain ways of addressing dependency.
WHAT YOU WILL DO IN THIS COURSE
- Report on an observed counselling session, simulated or real.
- Identify the learning methods available to the trainee counsellor.
- Demonstrate difficulties that might arise when first learning and applying micro skills.
- Identify why trainee counsellors might be unwilling to disclose personal problems during training.
- Identify risks that can arise for trainee counsellors not willing to disclose personal problems.
- Discuss different approaches to modelling, as a form of counselling
- Evaluate verbal and non-verbal communication in an observed interview.
- Identify the counsellor's primary role (in a generic sense).
- Show how to use minimal responses as an important means of listening with intent.
- Explain the importance of different types of non-verbal response in the counselling procedure.
- Report on the discussion of a minor problem with an anonymous person experiencing that problem.
- Identify an example of paraphrasing as a minimal response to reflect feelings.
- Discuss the use of paraphrasing in counselling.
- Differentiate catharsis from confused thoughts and feelings.
- Identify an example of reflecting back both content (thought) and feeling in the same phrase.
- Demonstrate/observe varying responses to a variety of closed and open questions in a simulated counselling situation.
- Evaluate your use of open and closed questions in a counselling role play.
- Identify the main risks involved in asking too many questions
- Explain the importance of avoiding questions beginning with ‘why' in counselling.
- Explain how the application of different micro-skills would be useful in counselling in observed communication (written or oral).
- Give examples of situtions when it would be appropriate for the counsellor to use confrontation
- Discuss appropriate use of confrontation, in case studies.
- Show how reframing can be used to change a client's perspective on things.
- Develop a method for identifying the existence of self-destructive beliefs (SDB's).
- Identify self-destructive beliefs (SDB's) amongst individuals within a group.
- List methods that can be used to challenge SDB's.
- Explain what is meant by normalising, in a case study.
- Demonstrate precautions that should be observed when using normalizing.
- Determine and evaluate optional responses to different dilemmas.
- Explain how the ‘circle of awareness' can be applied to assist a client, in a case study.
- Explain why psychological blockages may arise, and how a counsellor might help a client overcome them.
- Describe the process through which a counsellor would take a client to reach a desired goal, in a case study.
- Identify inter-dependency in observed relationships.
- Explain why good time management is an important part of the counselling process.
- Compare terminating a session with terminating the counselling process.
- Demonstrate dangers posed by client-counsellor inter-dependency, and how dependency can be addressed.
- Explain any negative aspects of dependency in a case study

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